WorkingWoman.com is proud of its support for Dress
for Success, a unique nonprofit agency that works with job-training
programs, homeless shelters, and other partners to distribute interview
suits to low-income women. The following profile is one of a series that
will feature a woman whose journey toward a successful career was aided by
this unique and inspiring program.
Like many teenagers, Amanda was hungry for independence and eager to
experience life on her own terms. She left her home in South Texas at age
17, moved in with her fiancé, and was soon pregnant. Amanda took the
opportunity to start a family, and to start her own adult life.
Amanda and her fiancé were happy with their baby boy, but expenses for
their young family were high. They lived together, financially struggling
and using credit cards to scrape by, for two years. When the baby was just
15 months old, Amanda's fiancé left home one day and never returned.
After he left, Amanda learned that both of the credit cards, which were
in her name, were charged up to their limit. Bill collectors were also
demanding $1,200 in outstanding charges on two cell phones her fiancé had
purchased in her name. Amanda suddenly found herself a single mom with bad
credit and bills she couldn't pay.
Frightened and alone, Amanda applied for food stamps and Medicaid. Like
most states, Texas requires aid recipients to enroll in a job training
program, and Amanda was referred to the Family Self-Sufficiency Program at
her local housing authority. After she completed her training, Amanda was
ready to go on job interviews, but she had nothing appropriate to wear and
no money for a new work wardrobe.
Amanda was referred to Dress for Success, where she was outfitted with
a complete interview suit, shoes, and accessories. "At Dress for
Success, the ladies gave me a beautiful suit that was in season — fall
colors — with a white blouse and a brand-new business portfolio,"
she recalls. Amanda was scheduled to go straight from Dress for Success to
her first interview, so a personal shopper assisted her with her hair and
makeup.
Amanda chuckles as she recalls the fear and anticipation she felt
before the interview: "I was so nervous that I burnt my fingers with
the curling iron. The ladies at Dress for Success immediately came to my
rescue — they gave me ice to hold on my finger until I got to the
interview. I had to travel 15 miles to the interview and I kept the ice on
the whole time — but by the time I got close, the butterflies took over
and my finger didn't hurt at all. The ladies were totally right, and they
calmed me down so I could get to the interview in one piece."
So did she get the job? "Yes, I accepted a position as a customer
service representative," Amanda said, "and after only two days,
I was promoted to work on a special project as a program service
technician at Del Mar College. I stayed on that job for three months and
applied for another as soon as my probation period ended." Amanda
didn't get that position, but because she had interviewed well she was
referred to another department "because they thought I was a good
candidate," she says.
Amanda ultimately accepted a position as a career consultant at
Workforce Network, where she helps others in difficult predicaments get
back on their feet. Amanda counsels TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy
Families) recipients, assisting them in developing employment plans and
identifying barriers to success, and putting them in touch with community
resources that can help them on the road to self-sufficiency.
Amanda continues to face her own challenges, both economically and
emotionally. Fortunately, Dress for Success has stuck with her throughout
this process. Once she landed a job, the organization invited her to
become part of its Professional Women's Group, a career development
association for clients who have started working. The group meets once a
month to discuss issues pertinent to their transition into the workforce.
One topic the group emphasizes is money management.
At a recent Professional Women's Group meeting, the Consolidated Credit
Union came to speak about budgeting and credit-building strategies. Amanda
credits the group with helping her move beyond living hand-to-mouth.
"[The speaker] talked to us about how to shop and how to manage our
credit cards," she recalled. "I learned that you're supposed to
be able to pay the entire balance each month — it helps you build good
credit, plus, if you can't afford it each month, you shouldn't be buying
it! She also told us about their free one-on-one classes and invited us to
attend as a next step. I took her card and put it in my business
portfolio. I contacted her after the meeting, and we're going to have
lunch later this month to talk about my financial matters some more."
Guest speakers at the Professional Women's Group cover a broad range of
topics, from time management and workplace etiquette to continuing
education and home ownership. But perhaps the greatest gift it offers its
members is a supportive and nurturing refuge from the daily hardships they
confront. "I used to be really shy and I didn't want anyone to know
what I'd overcome," Amanda shared, "but now there's a safe space
where I can go once a month to talk about me. It's boosted my self-esteem
and helped me shine. And when I see these other single moms in awe, going
through the same things I have, asking me for insight, I let them know
they have the potential to make it. And that's what this group is all
about."
Kristin Nygreen is Director of the Professional Women's Group, Dress
for Success Worldwide.